To be frank Many Nigerian girls who have married or in relationship today has put their parental responsibility on their husband.
First person said : In their believe since you agree to marry me then my responsibility and my parents responsibility shall be on you, no the man is only responsible for your care in terms of food, cloth, shelter, and security. He can only intervene if need be.
Second person: Collect money from your husband and send to your parent once in a while or if need be, never you say it not his duty because it part of his duty. And if you say we shouldn't collect money to send for our parents that equally means we shouldn't also take care of our husbands parent because is not our duty too.
Third person: But a married man can take care of his girlfriend and her parents but can't take care of his wife parents ogao.
Forth person: Oga Poster I will force him I say I will force him if husband and wife are meant to be one it is our duty to help both, parents especially when I happen to be the only child some men need to be push before they act.
Fifth person: Dear wify, it's not a duty or responsibility of your husband to take care of your parents, sending money or whatever. That's the responsibility of your siblings, especially the male ones.
Sixth person: Your husband is there to assist, that's if he has enough because you and the kids are solely his responsibility and not his in-law. And remember he has his own parents to care of aside you and the kids.
Seventh person: Your parents will be your husband's responsibility when you're the only child in your own family or no male child among the daughters, that's a reasonable understanding.
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