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Mrs. HELEAN OKOH express, shared Nobigdeal on the 18th May, 2022 after the job brought done in my office, a simple way to remain happy with your husband forever.
DEF: Marital Bliss means happiness in marriage said HELEAN.
She listed The basic Secret to Having a Happy Marriage as bellow :
1. First of all every happy couples argue.
2. Focus on each other’s strengths.
3. Don’t expect your partner to complete you
4. Do things together
5.Choose to be attracted to spouse
6. Laugh with each other
7. Be kind to one another
8. Celebrate small good moments.
9. Environment conducive to members also assure success in raising happy children.
She further explained that Whether you been married for years or just tied a knot no marriage is happy all the time. Like all relationship, there are ups and downs says Erica Macgregor.
"Focus on each other strength: it is not always easy to see past minor annoyance; at times you may even have your partner. But to have a happy marriage you have to accept your partner strength &weakness & be able to set realistic expectations."
"Say Ellen Christy don’t expect your partner to complete you: if you rely on your spouse to fulfill you, it can lead to an over dependent relationship."
Be mature, secure & whole in ourselves while be open to the other person.
Do things together & have fun Together: we should not fully depend on your partner in order to maintain a happy marriage, show common experience & inject new activities & interest into your relationship can strength the bond.
Attraction to your spouse is a decision that you have to make throughout your marriage.
Laugh with each other: life is stressful, so it help if you can find lightness even when you‘re in the thick of it. Find laughter in both good & bad times. E.g. watching your favorite comedy together.
Be kind to one another: be kind & respectful to one another & understanding of your spouse. If you are critical & judgmental it usually ends in defensiveness & resentment so, to keep things happy within the marriage avoid attacking your partner’s character when you are upset.
Celebrate small good moments: it is Important to be there for your partner during the tough time & to acknowledge the good times too.
Appreciate each other: learn not to take your spouse for granted whenever he does something for you e.g. Coffee.
Accept & expect change: marriage couples must be willing to grow & adopt. Our needs are always changing, people are growing & relationship involved. What we need today may not be what we need years for now. It is crucial to band flex & pivot with each other in a balanced dance. So support each other to become the best person.
Note: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
To be the first thing on his mind
1. Show your love
2. Cook for him
3. Learn about his interests
4. Flirt with him
5. Watch a romantic movie together
6. Plan a date night
7.Plan a surprise weekend gateway
8. Communication
8. Pamper yourself: don’t be stressed up.
9. Keep yourself healthy
10. Pursue knowledge
Be his best friend.